Kate Robertson (Schoening)
To all the friends I hold dear to me most....class of 1969 - I have not been able to keep up with things of late, this time of year is always crazy with work and family things, but is overwhelming for me this year. I'll get through it all, just like always, but I need to tell you all how much your friendship means to me! The holiday's always bring a rush of emotions that can't be denied and remembering my youth, which you are all a part of, and the simple meaning of Christmas, is filling my heart tonight. Christmas has become so commercial and gifts so elaborate that I just had to take a minute and remember a simpler time. Does anyone remember the Christmas Eve movie and bike give-a-way that Berg Mortuary did every year? It came back to me so vividly today, even the feeling of anticipation when you came out of the theater and it was getting dark and there were only a few hours before bed. And, only a few hours till Christmas. I want to feel that again!!
I remember getting my first bike, my first pair of ice skates, my first doll - there were no ipads, iphones, video games - Chatty Cathy was about as close as we came to any form of technology. Our parents spent less than a hundred dollars and some years less than $50 dollars......and tried to make as many things as they could - now you can't get by without hundreds and sometimes thousands of dollars to cover Christmas, and it never seems enough.....and then "poof," it's gone. Remember laying your stuff out on Christmas and leaving it out for days so you could show your friends and remember the feeling you felt when you woke up on Christmas morning. Remember nativity scenes on neighbors lawns!! Last year I drove around for hours trying to find a Nativity Scene.....never did, and I'll bet this year is the same. Remember that simple string of lights that we helped to put up on the front of the house, nothing designer about that........and it felt good!
I am feeling simple - Berg Mortuary movie, going carolling with my friends, anticipating my one or two gifts from Santa and appreciating all of it. Playing simple board games all day on Christmas, riding my new bike in the snow and hoping that everyone would be out to see (no helmet, sometimes no gloves) being stupidly cold and not evening knowing it, savoring every single minute of that day. Now it seems like that's all it is....one minute, and that minute is rushed. To quote a recent movie line.....5-minutes ago, I was 17 - what??
I just needed to take the time to be a little nostalgic tell all of you thank you for the memories and thank you for the friendship. I may not always be in touch, but I always remember! I hope you and your families all have a very Merry Christmas and enjoy the simple things. Sending lots of prayers love and yuletide warmth, especially to those who have lost loved ones!! Smile big on Christmas and remember that simple Springville time, savor the time with your families and give more hugs than gifts.
Love you all!
Kate
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